It's hard sometimes to remember that God is in every part of our lives.
We get so caught up in "life" that we often forget who is ultimately in charge of our life.
Well, let me tell you a little story to remind us.
I met this girl, her name was Kathy. We were going to China together. We talked multiple times through Facebook and were eagerly anticipating our trips to China, together, but separate. We knew we would be on the same plane from Atlanta to Seoul, then to Beijing, but in Beijing we would say our goodbyes and be off to get our daughters. She lived in Savannah at the time. When Mike and I arrived at the airport Kathy and I got to talking about our daughters we were soon to have, I told her about Olivia and that she had Arthrogryposis. Kathy said she had a friend who had adopted 2 boys from China, BOTH with Arthrogryposis. Now Arthrogryposis (AMC) is not a common diagnosis here in the US, I had only spoken with one other adoptive mama about AMC prior to going to China, so of course when she said this I was praising God for such a blessing. Since AMC is not common, there aren't many doctors that treat it, I knew about Dr vanBosse from the other mama I had spoken with, but I still had a hard time wrapping my mind around traveling to Philly.........Well once we were all safe and comfy in Beijing, Kathy hooked me up with her friend, Brandi (who just so happens be a nurse as well) via Facebook. I immediatly contacted her and we conversed a few times while I was in China. These commonalities of adoption, nursing, LOVE for orphans, and even more a LOVE for Christ, Brandi and I became great FB buddies. About a month after we were home Brandi and I talked on the phone and all my fears of traveling to Philly were soon relieved by everything she had to say. Last summer we finally met face to face, in Philly, of course. I wish we lived closer because she is an amazing women that I would love to see more often. (On a side note, she is moving to China......I'm SO JEALOUS!! I guess I'll have to go visit her.....;-))
Fast forward to current day, I knew she was moving to China and I knew what province but I didn't know what city. For my own reasoning and thoughts, I FB'd her one night to find out where she would be living. She replied and that was that. Then I got another message from her asking if I lived close to Snellville. I replied, yeah only about 15 minutes, and I was thinking, oh I hope she's going to be up this way so we could get together.
She replied that a friend of hers was leaving the next morning to come to the hospital there, where a baby had been born and was available for adoption. I immediately replied with ABSOLUTELY, please give her my number and tell her I am here if she needs ANYTHING!
With all my traveling to Philly, alone, not knowing if we would be able to stay at the Ronald McDonald House or if we would have to find a hotel at the last minute. And then staying in a hotel by myself in an unknown city, which I HATED, and not knowing the city well. I wanted to help her with whatever I could. Brandi mentioned, maybe she could stay with me this weekend, her husband had to go back home for work.
At first, I thought, that may be weird, she may not feel comfortable with it, but whatever,
I truly wanted to help her out!
The next night she called me and immediately we hit it off, we talked for a few minutes and decided she absolutely would stay with us. On the next day I was having bible study at my house with my (amazing) friends, Ashley had asked if she could come by in the daylight so we could meet, then she would go back to the hospital and come back later that night to sleep. I asked if she wanted to come for our bible study and she did.
It was nothing but a "God thing"!
We had an amazing bible study, we all felt as if we had know her and she had known us, we were all so transparent and really felt God's presence as we discussed life. I am so very thankful for that day and those 4 girls! Ashley, eventually, went back to the hospital, and when she came home that night we stayed up til 3.A.M. talking!!
I truly wanted to help her out!
The next night she called me and immediately we hit it off, we talked for a few minutes and decided she absolutely would stay with us. On the next day I was having bible study at my house with my (amazing) friends, Ashley had asked if she could come by in the daylight so we could meet, then she would go back to the hospital and come back later that night to sleep. I asked if she wanted to come for our bible study and she did.
It was nothing but a "God thing"!
We had an amazing bible study, we all felt as if we had know her and she had known us, we were all so transparent and really felt God's presence as we discussed life. I am so very thankful for that day and those 4 girls! Ashley, eventually, went back to the hospital, and when she came home that night we stayed up til 3.A.M. talking!!
I have gained an amazing friend and am so thankful God brought us together! So not only has God blessed me with a wonderful daughter through adoption, but He has also blessed me with some pretty awesome friends!
I have to mention one thing......this was in February (right after Valentine's Day) and I had the book, "The Best Christmas Pageant Ever" laying on my table.
Ashley said she had the exact same book laying on her table.....
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